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ISFPs are likely to be practical, warm, and relaxed parents. They will know how to take care of their children’s daily needs, making sure that they have plenty of exciting things to do and learn every day. In contrast, long-term planning (such as saving for their kids’ studies) is not something that ISFPs enjoy; they will likely rely on their partner in such situations.

ISFP parents tend to be well grounded and spontaneous at the same time. They prefer giving their children plenty of freedom. According to ISFPs, only by allowing children to explore and experience new things can parents ensure that they grow up as open-minded, well-balanced individuals. There are limits, of course, but in general, ISFPs are likely to be one of the most relaxed types when it comes to parenting.

Despite refusing to intervene in their children’s lives too much, ISFPs enjoy spending time with them. People with this personality type love fun, practical activities, and it is very likely that they will encourage their children to take up some hobbies as well. For instance, an ISFP parent may suggest going on a trip together or embarking on a fun home improvement project.

Regardless of the above traits, ISFPs tend to be private and sensitive individuals, and parenthood does not necessarily change that. They need to know that their work and efforts are being appreciated, especially by people closest to them. ISFP parents are likely to get deeply hurt if their parenting skills or lifestyle are criticized. Not surprisingly, their children’s adolescence can be an extremely challenging time for an ISFP. It is very important that ISFPs learn how to control their emotions and not overreact when something goes wrong.

That being said, ISFP personalities are likely to be very warm and caring parents, both willing and perfectly able to engage with their children and have fun together.

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